Kinky Sex in Team Land
Kinky sex is not just shackled to your bed. You can create it out on a leash for the club scene. We asked Xpanded TV babe and resident kinky sex enthusiast Verity Strict of xpanded. com to tell us more about the sexy shenanigans taking place at fetish incidents in the big city.
I reflect fondly on my first time at London’ ersus biggest fetish ball. My personal education of fetish clubs was limited to the small femdom gatherings where I discovered my craft as a mistress, and the kinky sex within my personal life. I like issues small and intimate, so when ever my photographer friend Rich called me about a spare ticket I actually took some convincing. I usually relegate me personally to the kitchen during a party. The venue had a skilled fetish booth, a vintage S& M salon and a primary arena – But simply no kitchen to hide in!
Rich’ s partner had cleared off and he isn’ t the kind that likes to be seen by themselves. So after some prodding I relented. I was performing a favour of course , as a good friend.
“ You might even find out that you’ re into kinky sex. ” Rich laughed. He’ s been aware of my the likelihood of the depraved for years.
“ Yeah, just like that’ s going to happen”.
Two days to travel before the event and I manufactured a trip into the city to find something to wear. I had meal at Covent Garden and stopped by a favourite fetish store of mine. The program is simple. Press the buzzer, look at your feet and shift your gaze from side to side until you are invited in, then sink on the ground floor into the underworld of Birmingham. The store’ s wall is plastered with flyers for the many BDSM occasions on the London kink scene, the cellar filled with latex clothing. A cork plank crucifix flanks a natural leather swing. A little abstract I believe, but as this is a shrine to rubber fetish put on, I guess you could say you can find some kind of worship going on.
A middle used gentleman stands nervously at the counter, presumably ducking away at lunch time on an ‘ errand’. The sadist in me enjoys making him feel uneasy so as he chatters away at me personally I make sure he seems my gaze analysing every single nuance of this transaction. A store assistant rings up an extra small rubber corset throughout the till. DEFINITELY too tiny for him, so I deduced it was for someone else.
“ Something for the weekend? ” I question.
His chuckle is a little too high pitched as he fumbles with his Amex. His left hand slumps by his side and poorly hides a wedding ring.
Not for the wife either.
The helper greets me as a familiar, ringing up the red gown and stockings as I pour curiously over a cabinet of kinky sex toys that turns into increasingly unnerving from top to bottom. I glow on the way home, my purchase inconspicuous, reveling in a closely guarded dirty secret. I spot the man drinking coffee a few roadways away and we exchange a knowing glance but nothing extra. The BDSM scene features taught me that in the wonderful world of kinky sex, discretion just heightens the thrill.
The evening of the ball comes around and I join Richard and two porn starlets, Emma and Brooke in a rented apartment a few streets away from venue. Rich lives in Manchester but insists on letting a place in the city centre every time a major fetish event takes place. He’ s self-assured he’ ll get blessed and wildly enough his bravado usually enables him to get a girl or a man or several to head returning to ‘ his place’ to keep the party.
Emma looked gorgeous. For business purposes, Emma is bisexual but recreationally only hooks up with women. We have found before, but the stars by no means aligned for us to bone. A few drinks later and she’ s telling me that she’ s obedient, compliant, acquiescent, subservient, docile, meek, dutiful, tractable when it comes to her taste in kinky sex (perfect) and in the cab on the way generally there she curls into my lap and slides her hand up my ” leg “. I joke to her that everyone seems to have conspired to hide their clothes or none whatsoever underneath a mac. We ponder why this is the clothes of perverts. Speaking of the uniform, the fetish ball enforces a strict outfit code and those not in fetish wear will be rapidly turned away. Luckily we all seem to make the cut and we are ushered in by security. We disrobe in the cloakroom.
Rich swans off to chat to models ‘ in the kink scene’; ever the cultural butterfly and I head with Emma and Brooke in to the main room, the huge speakers already pumping out throbbing drum and bass. The crowd is an assault on the senses. It looks like just about every freak from every subwoofer culture of the London kink scene is here in full natural beauty for their dose of dirty sex: rubberists, drag queens and slaves. Oh my own. It’ s positively fucking Bacchanalian.
The background music dampens as the crowd fixes their attention to fr.blablacams.com/asiatique/ the night’ s entertainment. We have a shibari and wax take up performance, followed by fire eaters and burlesque dancers. The music thrusts the revelers in and out the carnival, and when the atmosphere just begins to want to will swallow me up, I take a walk through the beauty shop playroom to play voyeur. Using one side of the room players politely introduce themselves to each other in juxtaposition to a couple tearing each other apart. Still though, the etiquette is definitely impeccable. It’ s a rule of the scene to keep your distance when you are not involved and ALWAYS ask permission just before you touch someone.
There are specific theme rooms currently happening for those who have specific kinky love-making fantasies. Personally my favourite may be the medical fetish room. It harkens back to my days as a student: dirty, dark and lots of sex going on. I still look rather getting in a lab coat. I was also rather impressed with all the amount of props to learn with. I thought my male masturbator closet was intimidating, nevertheless this beat me completely. Usually, it’ s myself dishing out the beating.
Brooke and Emma seem to have disappeared but I find them on a settee in the medical fetish room making a show of themselves for a group of guys exactly who all seem rather… enthusiastic about their performance. My strategies for lesbian kinky intimacy appeared to be scuppered for the night, however my optimism returned when I bumped into a classic friend.
I just met Stuart several months ago in an alt rock fetish function and from day one it absolutely was a power struggle. We had a mutual interest in bizarre music and rubber fetish wear. He told me having been an electrician by working day and enjoyed getting amazed with electrostim toys at nighttime and this made me laugh, hard. We went home together that night and fought to discover who could tie each other to the bed first.
I won, mainly because I always win.
I headed towards his smile. We had met up a few times, some of those times were dusty, others sweet but it was one of those relationships that would be based on sex alone. That was quite alright by me personally. I didn’ t will need fall in love with Stuart to take pleasure in getting kinky with him.
“ Can I touch you? ” He asked. I nodded as he slid his hand up the back of my dress. That was certainly unexpected. I remember the heat of his palm on the top of my thigh, my personal face burned as different ones looked on.
“ That’ s quite presumptuous of you” I actually nodded towards his hand.
“ Well, you should do something about that”.
“ I think I’ve something in mind”.
I led him away, mumbling a safeword in his ear, looking to find something to tie him to. It should be known that not most revellers engage in kinky making love at a fetish function. But , in this case… surely it would be rude not to?
I recalled a apparence of a taxi ride house. Rich, Emma, Brooke and i also shared a bed and awoke very much worse to get wear in the morning.
“ What’ s that? ”
Affluent pointed at my thighs. Starting them I still found hints of stripes coming from only hours before.
“ Oh that? You should see the other man! ”
I privately winced for Stuart. Needless to say, after ‘ conversing out’ his presumptions the two of us left on very great terms. I’ ve scheduled my ticket for next time. It’ s been a little while since I’ ve seen Stuart, and a lot of slaves own licked my heels subsequently. I go to the fetish ball as often as I can, nonetheless in cahoots with Rich and his glamorous model guests dressed head to toe in their fantasy.
For people who dare to indulge there exists plenty of kinky sex in the London fetish club arena. It’ s waiting out there, somewhere in the dark, breathless and soaked with sweat for the dance floor.